The time we had our first LQ, I had to be the one to say sorry even If I didn't do anything wrong. He was mad but I think I made him even more mad when I acted being mad as well lol. Well I was always like that even in my past relationships ( parang reverse psychology but it didn't worked to him ). That time I realized I might loose him. Kaka-start pa lang kasi namin and he's supposed to enjoy his first visit in the Philippines. SO when he was packing all his things, I begged and said I was soooo sorry while crying so hard lol..and yeah, I got him and the rest is history....... (haha)
During our first year as couple, whenever we argue ( over some petty things), he's always calm, serious and willing to talk after the tension. While me, I don't talk and I don't listen. I was immature when it comes to this... I actually hate confrontations. I usually walk out to avoid serious conversations. When I can't walk out, my voice gets louder and hysterrical. That was before...
Now, I have learned to be calmed, listen and talk. I guess I have become matured because of him. I learned to say sorry when it's my fault. Di nako masyado palaban coz it offends my hubby and he feels like I undermine his ego.
one of our "after fight" photo
Anyway, what I love about the "after fight" is the kiss and making up. We're like super duper nice and sweet to each other.