The time we had our first LQ, I had to be the one to say sorry even If I didn't do anything wrong. He was mad but I think I made him even more mad when I acted being mad as well lol. Well I was always like that even in my past relationships ( parang reverse psychology but it didn't worked to him ). That time I realized I might loose him. Kaka-start pa lang kasi namin and he's supposed to enjoy his first visit in the Philippines. SO when he was packing all his things, I begged and said I was soooo sorry while crying so hard lol..and yeah, I got him and the rest is history....... (haha)
During our first year as couple, whenever we argue ( over some petty things), he's always calm, serious and willing to talk after the tension. While me, I don't talk and I don't listen. I was immature when it comes to this... I actually hate confrontations. I usually walk out to avoid serious conversations. When I can't walk out, my voice gets louder and hysterrical. That was before...
Now, I have learned to be calmed, listen and talk. I guess I have become matured because of him. I learned to say sorry when it's my fault. Di nako masyado palaban coz it offends my hubby and he feels like I undermine his ego.
one of our "after fight" photo
Anyway, what I love about the "after fight" is the kiss and making up. We're like super duper nice and sweet to each other.
Talaga lang ha.. Kissing and making up is always the best daw. That's why kapag medyo di na kami nagkaka misunderstanding, gagawa na ko ng way para magkainisan na kaming mag asawa, aba eh need niya akong i date noh..hehehe.
ReplyDeletePareho tayo, when he's mad at me about something, I get madder, hehehe..mamaya mo, kahit ako ang at fault, siya na ang nag so sorry sa akin. But, I know where I stand naman kapag alam kong galit na si hubby. Ang mga guys kasi no matter how great they are, they also have limitations on how long they can tolerate our kaartehan, di ba? I am glad that your hubby is so sweet..loves na loves ka talaga.
Pareho pala tayo Bams,ganyan din ako kay hubby ko kahit sya na ang may mali ako ap rin ang so sorry reverse phsycology nga kaya siguro nagtagal din kami ng ganito.I do believe magtatagal din kayo,just keep it up Bams,you're just doing the right thing.
ReplyDeleteTwin, you guys look soooo cute sa photo n yan! I love it!!!
ReplyDeleteSaang "after fight" ang nasa photo,Bambie?LOL!!\(^0^)/Ganyan na ganyan din ako dati--baka din siguro sa pagiging immature natin.Habang nagtatagal,pati ang relationship ng mag-asawa eh naggo-grow.
ReplyDeletere:ihatid mo si lil Anzu sa amin para mabantayan ko pag nag-away kayo lol!!I mean pahiram kay Anzu!!\(^0^)/
when i read this page...i can relate it to myself ;p...my hubby so super duper cool...but not me ;(
ReplyDeletebut now i start to learn how to be cool..
and its true, after fighting we like to start all over again like a new relationship..hahaha
hi dear...tq for drop by at my blog..OMG..i think tht im dreaming lol
ReplyDeletebtw, i do email u juz now regarding my baby blog add.i juz fill in d form msg at ur baby blog n i dun know you can receive it or not..or if u dun mind can u gv me any email tht u have so we can email each other easily?tq
That's the sweet part after having a fight, the lambing moments.
ReplyDeleteIt's amazing how other people touches our life and eventually change us to someone better.
Just dropping by.
Ness from www.inbetweenbreaks.blogspot.com
Your husband is very lucky to have you sis, kasi maganda na mabait pa. Ganayan talaga tayong mga babae ano, try ang reverse psychology hindi nman nag wowork. We raise our voice as defense mechanism. Buti ka marunong mag sorry ako, minsan hirap lumabas ang sorry sa bibig ko lalo na kung galit na galit. Kaya nga aabot talaga ng ilang araw bago ako makipag peace.
ReplyDeleteNice entry sis, nandito lang pala entry mo, hinanap ko sa azumi blog. mo. Add ko tong blog mo sa worths road ko
Hi, pwede tayo friends?
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